When 2 people fall for each other,there's must be bcoz' of the attraction caught by their eyes.Some fall for the identical or similarity.Some fall for the difference or dissimilarity one has.Some said they can attach to others bcoz' of the similarity they have.They may have same interest in hobbies,food & drinks,style,features,etc.Some said they can relate to others bcoz' of the difference they have.They may have different interest.
Some said it's boring to know someone who have the same interest.For instant the hobby.They tend to do the same thing together everytime.Bcoz' of the sameness,there's no variety in their activity.They want some space for themselves.They want the difference as their identity.But for some people,it's a wish come true if they could find someone who have the same interest.They can spend the time together & not to argue what to do when spending time together.There're always pros & cons in this matter.
For me,i don't mind at all.Since i never think of what kind of person i want as my soul mate,it never a problem to me.But i'm blessed bcoz' there's a difference & similarity between me & my fiance.
First of all,we're both form same state,trganu.So,there're a lot of similarness between us.In terms of dialect,we can understand each other very well.In terms of foods,we have the same tongue;all trganu food.Our food are different from other state so it's easy when finding food to eat bcoz' we'll try to find the stall sold food identical with trganu food.Curry is ok with us but not the thick curry they sold almost at all stalls in kl.Both of us not fond of milk or anything white like soya drink & taufufah.Both of us like western food so we like to eat pizza & spagetti.But he hates cheese & vege they had.I love all kind of vege but not him.He'll make sure no vege,onion,garlic,ginger in his food.If not,he'll ditch the food.Both of us like fish,chicken & meat but he'll never eat 'ayam kg','ayam kg' egg,duck,duck egg or anything made from them.
In terms of tv programmes,he likes kungfu or action story whereas i like detective/investigation story like ,mistery & science fiction series.But most important thing is both of us love cartoon.We'll spend our saturday & sunday morning watching cartoon.
We like to spend time at home with each other.I never thought that he actually prefers to be by himself as i am.It's not that we didn't like to mix around with other people but we prefer to break ourself away from crowds.
When we read the reading materials,both of us have a habit or reading backward,read from the back.But when reading news paper,he read the sports column first whereas i prefer to read the headline or main news.So that we can share the same paper w/o takes turn reading it.I likes to read informative magazine i.e. cleo but he prefers comics book i.e. pedang setiawan. In terms of sport,i'm not very keen in it.I only fell in love with & whereas he's into all kind of sports especially .
We love each other for the difference & the similarity we had.We can share the informative knowledge we had.We have our own freedoms & we don't have to depend to each other.We have our own interest so that we can have our separate life.We have same interest so that we can spend time together.
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