How Do U Know If He's The One?

You know he is "The One" when God tells you so.
You know he is "The One" when the love you have for each other is not built on worldy standards of "falling into and out of love" but is based on a agape, sacrificial love that endures challenges and "seasons".
You know he is "The One" when you can trust, honor, and obey him knowing that he will help you fulfill whatever purpose God has designed for you.
You know he is "The One" when you can see the Christlike nature in him (that is, he is not consistently seeking selfish advantage and not willfully and knowingly hurting others to achieve some goal).
You know he is "The One" when he has character, integrity, and redeeming values.
Don't trust your heart either.
Trust your inner spirit instead. Your heart will lead you to so many poor choices about love.
Listen to your inner spirit and stop fighting it.
And finally, just remember, what FEELS good to you isn't NECESSARILY good for you.

I remember one said; U just know he's the one when u can't live without him, when u want to share all ur life with him, when u feel he completes u & u completes him, when u don't want others to live between u, when he "changes" u from worst to bad, from bad to good, from good to the best. He will fit effortlessly into your life and world. He cares about you...during the good times and the bad ones. You have no doubt he will still be there no matter what happens. & most importantly he accept u for who u are....not someone he wants u to be.