My oh my,my friend did it again.I don't whether she feels so unsecure with herself or just to announce her situation to everybody?Yesterday she came to see me.As usual,when she came,there always now story in her life,usually about her & her admirer.
Once again they were in a conflict.She can't figure it out his felling toward her but they were very close & spend most time with each other.He even showed his jealousy when she treat her other boyfriends more than him.She was so unhappy with his cold behaviour.& as usual,she was afraid to ask him bout his feeling.
Once again they were in a conflict.She can't figure it out his felling toward her but they were very close & spend most time with each other.He even showed his jealousy when she treat her other boyfriends more than him.She was so unhappy with his cold behaviour.& as usual,she was afraid to ask him bout his feeling.
Then she took a short cut route by seeing a shaman to 'see' his real feeling towards her.& like most of typical shaman,her guesses were right;he loved her but too ego & to pride to tell her.The shaman assured her that he will come to her or call her in a short time after he put some good spell on him.But she became so desperate when the time didn't come as the shaman promised.So that's why she came to see me.I'm not a shaman but i believe in +ve thinking.
She was too obedient with the shaman's foretell.She believe him,so that's why she didn't do anything to settle the problem.But i'm not that patient when i'm in doubt.I'll try to settle it or find a way to untie any confusion.I told her to call him.If she's not that brave to ask him his feeling yet,at least she can break the ice.She could ask him why he was like purposely stayed away from her.She could ask as a friend bcoz' they've been friend for years.She was in doubt;what if he wouldn't answer her call,what if he sign her off,what if he give her cold treat,what if that,what if this.
I told her to believe in herself.She won't loose anything by calling him.She won't loose her pride if she break the ice.Who knows the outcome.If we have good intention,we'll get a good outcome.U know what,he answered her call & treat her nicely like there was nothing happen between them.She was relieved.If she still followed the shaman's said,she wouldn't know what's going to happen next.May be sooner or later,he'll call her back @ look for her.But what if he didn't?She'll eat her heart out,waiting for him to appear again.But in another circumstances,we girls should at a time silence ourself.But it depends on u.
U don't have to follow others instruction blindly.U can ask their opinion,u can hear what they think but it doesn't mean u have to follow them all.Whatever u do,believe in urself.Have faith.Follow ur heart.
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