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♥ You're not best friends because you sit together at LUNCh or taLK on the phone, or have matching fLiP-fLOPS or can recite each others Wardrobe. You're bestfriends because when she smiles, a grin forces itself across ur face no matter how mad you are, when she cries you instantly feel her pain and want to cry with her. When you Look her in the eyes you know theres no one you could ever tryst more regardLess of how many broken hearts you've had. That's what it means to be best friends...♥

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Bunga Bukan Sekuntum, Kumbang Bukan Seekor

A few days ago,my friend A told me a sad news.She has been dumped by her boyfriend.Her bf asked to break off on the 5th hari raya.Even though she treated him a sparepart,she felt really sad & hurt especially it happened during a happy days, hari raya.She didn't expect her bf will leave her & that soon.She planned to leave him after she found a replacement but now,she has been left out.I felt sorry for her but at the same time deep down i feel it serves her right bcoz' she only treat him as a spare part & has plan to dump him as soon as she has a new replacement.& last fasting month,she met another guy but she wasn't sure about her feeling.So she befriend with him & her bf at the same time.She has no problem of meeting both of them bcoz' her bf was in jb while she & her new bf were in kl.

She just couldn't understand why did he broke off their relationship.As far as she could remember,he was mad at her when she told him that she bought a new necklace for her mom using her credit card.She couldn't get it why he mad about it as she used her own money to pay the bills.She can afford it.After the incident,he kept quiet for several days.Then suddenly he send sms saying that he want a break off.He gave no reason.She tried to call him but he didn't picked it his hp.She sent a lot of smses but no reply.A few days after that he called & told her that he just couldn't be with her anymore bcoz' she didn't understand him.Fullstop.That's it.That's the only reason he gave.
She tried to find the details but he stayed mum.She was furious bcoz' he broke off their relationship thru sms.He has not guts to meet her & break it off face to face.Such a coward.& last weekend he came to kl bcoz' he has a seminar here.He asked whether she wanted to meet him or not.She was not that eager to meet him but she want to bcoz' she wanted to hear his true reason for the break off.But when the time came,he sent her sms saying that he was already on the way back to jb.He went back early morning bcoz' the seminar finished early.
She was more angry with him.It seems that he has no guts to meet her.If he really a man,he should met her & told her directly,not thru sms.It is very rude.Apa,dia ingat dia handsome sangat?(He thought he handsome?)Sorry to say,he's not handsome at all.He's a typical nerd guy.He told her that he wanted to befriend her & hoped that they can still be friend after this.Hah,it's not that easy.He had hurt her feeling,now he wanted to be just a friend.For me,i can't accept it.So is she.But she couldn't just ignore him bcoz' he debted her.He used her credit card to buy a new laptop & he has 6 times more to pay.She had to keep in touch with him bcoz' of the debt.If not,she has no feeling to have any contact with him anymore.

& now she was really lonely.As i said b4,she is real loner.She had no friend apart of her colleague & her siblings.Luckily she has a replacement.I wish her best with her new partner.Please remember,it's not in the end of the world."Bunga bukan sekuntum,kumbang bukan seekor".

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