I sympathised with my good friend.Last time she came for me to share her story.Her heart was broken into pieces.She was in love with her best friend.They have known each other more than 5 years.She thought he was also in love with her.She saw all those signs.They always went out together almost every day.He got jealous if she went out with other guys,even though his best friend or his friends.They quarelled like most others couple do.They greet each other every day.He cared about her very much.But one thing is,he never said anything about his feeling towards her & she never asked bcoz' she believed sooner or later he will say it.She also went to see a traditional shaman & that shaman told her,this boy was in love with her but he was afraid to say it.& she believed it.
But then,2 weeks ago this boy told her directly with no guilty that he had met someone special.They've going out for a couple of weeks b4 that.He told everything about his girlfriend.Luckily it was at night & they were in the car.If not,the boy may be can see my friend's face.Her tears drop,luckily she can still control her voice.
She was really sad bcoz' she was waiting the moment he'll say he was in love with someone & that someone was her.But it's not came true.She was dumbfounded.After all this years,she saved her love for him.She did everything for him.But in the end,he falls for someone else & told her with no guilt.If it's nothing happen between them.
After all this time,she keeps wondering whether he was in love with her or not.I can't give her an answer as it was only a sign,a mix signs.She went through this situation b4 & in the end she was wrong.That man was in love with someone else & the bad news was,he kept on hiding it & gave excuses when she asked him.But this time around,the boy told her directly.
I told her so (but i can't say it now to her).I told her to ask the boy his feeling towards her.We can't just assume he likes us based on the signs.He cared for us,but that's not mean they loves us.They took us out almost every day,but that's may be not mean they love us.They called us everyday,everytime,that's also no mean they loves us.We have to ask them directly.Don't ever guess in a disguise.Bcoz' in the end this what will happened.U're lucky enough,like me,if ur gesture is true.Like her,my fiance never told me he loves me.He only told me,i was his very best friend & it's different with friend & lover.He has all those signs.We went out together every day.We 'lepak' at mamak stall from day to night.He called me everytime.But he said the 'L' word.Luckily enough,finally he said it after years of waiting & he means it when he asked me to get married with him.
I told her so (but i can't say it now to her).I told her to ask the boy his feeling towards her.We can't just assume he likes us based on the signs.He cared for us,but that's not mean they loves us.They took us out almost every day,but that's may be not mean they love us.They called us everyday,everytime,that's also no mean they loves us.We have to ask them directly.Don't ever guess in a disguise.Bcoz' in the end this what will happened.U're lucky enough,like me,if ur gesture is true.Like her,my fiance never told me he loves me.He only told me,i was his very best friend & it's different with friend & lover.He has all those signs.We went out together every day.We 'lepak' at mamak stall from day to night.He called me everytime.But he said the 'L' word.Luckily enough,finally he said it after years of waiting & he means it when he asked me to get married with him.
But not all people as lucky as i am.My friend used my life story as her guides.I warned her,not all man as the same as my fiance.Not all people is the same.Our life has been fated by god & not all life are the same.She kept on hoping.I reminded her about her last relationship.I didn't want to see her in sorrow once more.But she take the easiet way;wait.Its looks like her waiting just a wait of time.Her heart was broken once more.Now she realized the said;loves someone that loves u more.But she was too late.There was a boy who loves her very much since they were in secondary school but she never bothered with him.She once said to him that she has no feeling towards him.He kept on trying to win her heart for years until last month he has gave up with her & he has found someone else.He still likes her but there's no love anymore.
Suddenly she was awaken by the unsuccessful love she hoped for & realized,she has wasted a very precious opportunity.But she was too late.She questioned herself,why on earth she never 'saw' the true love?Why did she kept on hoping for uncertain thing?Now she realized her true love but she was too late.She want to accept the love this time but the boy has already given his love to someone else who knows how to appreciate it.
Suddenly she was awaken by the unsuccessful love she hoped for & realized,she has wasted a very precious opportunity.But she was too late.She questioned herself,why on earth she never 'saw' the true love?Why did she kept on hoping for uncertain thing?Now she realized her true love but she was too late.She want to accept the love this time but the boy has already given his love to someone else who knows how to appreciate it.
I know her heart was broken.She lost 2 loves;love that she hope for & love that she never saw infront of her eyes.But believe me,there's always others out there who are going to love us truely.Only time will tell.Just don't give up on love.Farah,i wish u good luck.Forget about all those heartbreaking memories.Lifes must go on.It's not the end of the world.Only remember,don't give high hope to someone.It's not a sin to ask someone about his feeling.It's for our own sake.
- Bcoz' -
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