Indahkah Bersuami Muda?

Last sunday i watched Nona on tv3.They brought a quite interesting topic "Indahkah Bersuami Muda?" & the topic has caught my husband's attention.Maybe for some people that matter is not a big deal.But for some others it does. Married to a younger husband does has its pros & cons.Even my husband used to ask how do i feel when married to him as he's also younger than me.My answer?I've no problem with that.On positive side,i'm proud bcoz' i've succeed to capture a young man's heart.On the negative side,i was afraid at what his family & other people will say.My family has no problem of accepting him.I was afraid of his family's acceptance as i'm older that their son/brother.I am afraid what's in their mind,what have i done until my husband fall in love with an older woman (me)?As if no other younger woman out there to be his wife?
I am lucky bcoz' his family has no problem with the age difference.I'm not their only daughter-in-law who's older than their son.My husband's brother's wife (brother-in-law) is also older.Even she's older than me (note:my BIL is younger than me).Now,my husband's younger brother is coupled with a younger girl.If not mistaken, 10 years younger.So i'm not the only one in his family.The problem is i've 2 brother-in-laws who are younger than me.But still i've to call them 'abang' as a sign of respectful.
My father said nothing.But my mom used to ask me (b4 we get married),larat ke nanti?I've no idea what she meant with it bcoz' i didn't asked her back.For me,as long as i know where do i stand,there will be no problem.I'm a wife,so i've to know my responsibility even though i'm more senior than he is.Luckily i looks younger than him & he's mature than me.So no sister-younger brother situation will arrise.
Since both family have no problem with that,other people's opinion has no effect on us.Lets what others want to say as long as we're happy.From the first day we met (knew each other's age),i never felt i'm older than him as he never arose the age matter.He never called me 'kakak' or treat me like one.
So,indahkah bersuami muda?There's nothing special about it.We lived like any other couples.There's no difference at all.Even we won't tell others about the age if they didn't ask.Age difference is a matter of numbers.The most important thing is we understand where do we stand, respect each other & ready to keep our responsibilty.