Which/Who Is Your Choice?

Know what,girls 'always' talk about man of their choice.They want like this,want like that.I have friends who like to talk about it.Most of them have their own criteria.And most of them want a handsome guy as their partner.But what do handsome means to them?How can we describe as handsome?Is it face like Brat Pitt or Tom Cruise or Salman Khan?

I just can say that handsome is universal.Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.Maybe one person is handsome in our eyes but not so so in others eyes.There's a friend of mine who falls for Mawi,AF champion,look.She want to find her partner with Mawi's look.But sorry to say,for me,Mawi is nothing.Mawi is not handsome in my eyes.When i said that,she felt irritate.But who should blame us?Mawi's features are handsome for her but not for me.Maybe a a handsome guy for me is not someone that she prefered.

There's occasion when we bump into a guy.She would scream (luckily no one hear us becoz we're in the car) bcoz' she thought the man was so handsome & it's wonderful if she can have him.Oh no,once again,he's not my type of man i look for.

Sorry to say,i don't fall for someone's look.It doesn't mean that i'll accept everything but just enough 'sedap mata memandang'.Honestly i feel that look will fade through time.That's why i feel that the most important is who the man is.Sometimes people used their look to cheat/trick other people.Actually,i've encounter this situation (even though it happened to my close friend).One occasion,my friend really desperate to have a boyfriend after she was dumped by her ex.She said she was lonely & can't live w/out a man.Less than 3 months after that,she meet this man.I admit,this man was handsome & softspoken.My friend was very proud to have a handsome partner.

But the truth came.Actually he's jobless & married with 3 children (the 4th one is coming).We're very shocked.I just couldn't believe it bcoz' avtually he just want to have fun with girls.He just want to use her as his banker (she loaned her money to him but eventually didn't get back).After she realized who's the man,he just go missing.We as her friends decided to test this man.We contacted him thru his YM & got a very feedback.From this we knew that he used his look to cheat.We don't even know how many girls have been cheated by him & how many will be his next victim.

The 2nd occasion happen to my best friend.She has a handsome bf.Everyone said she was very lucky to have him.They coupled for almost 4 years but then he married to another girl.He said no word about his marriage.There's no bye bye from him.Actually he said that he've been forced by his family to marry his wife but the truth've been reavealed by his friend.He've been coupled with his wife for quite sometimes but my friend didn't realized bcoz' they bcinta jarak jauh.The man was in KL & his wife is in JB.She was cheated 'hidup2'.She was used as his 'sparepart',to ease his loneliness in KL bcoz' his true gf was farway.Like my friend,she has spend a lot of money for him.When she knew the truth,she tried to ask back her money but he keeps avoiding her 'till this day.He just disappeared into thin air.He evacuated his rented house,left his job & changed his hp no.

After she was dumped & cheated (more than a year),she found another man but this time she didn't look for look anymore.This time this man is not handsome at all (she's the one who said like that but honestly,mmg x handsome).Why?Bcoz' she feel that handsome & good looking man only want to 'main2'.So,she was serik to fall in love with handsome man anymore.Biar tak handsome,jnji hati baik.The rest of is another story.

So,i just fed-up when people like to judge others choice.Tengok pompuan tu,eiiii,bf dia x handsome la.Eiiii,nape la laki tu,buta ke?Awek dia mcm tong dram.Tak padan langsung.Eiii,pompuan tu dh la x lawa,nape la pakwe dia pilih dia hah?Eiii,pompuan tu dh xde laki lain ke?Pakwe dia tak handsome langsung.These are the words that we always heard.Who are they to judge?What about them?Ingat pakwe diaorg tu handsome sgt ke?Klau pakwe diaorg tu handsome,ingat diaorg tu lawa sgt ke?

Please don't judge other people's choices.We're not in their shoes to judge.They've their own reason for their choices.Maybe their choice is the best for them,not to us but the final decision is theirs.

For some people,the man who want to tackle them should have these criterias.They should be;

(1) handsome (so that they can show off to other people)

(2) rich (so that they can have what ever they want;shopping & dining at luxury place)

(3) have good job (so that their family can show off to their neighbour)

(4) have big car (at least a motorbike so that they don't have to use public transport when go dating)

(5) etc.

Some people put this criteria as a priority.Tak handsome,sorry.

A friend of mine used to ask me to match her with guys bcoz' she want to have a bf like her friends.She feels left out w/out bf.So i tried to match a few guys i've known.But so far,no one has filled up her needs.There's always excuses.Not handsome la,not funny la etc.Sometimes we do have to 'mengukur baju di badan sendiri'.