SUKMA XII TERENGGANU 2008

31 May 2008 - 9 June 2008
http://www.sukma-2008.com.my/

Today is the last day sukma malaysia held in my home town, terengganu.Too bad i am in kl & can't go home to attend the event & celebrate our state's victory as the champion,the highest gold medal receivers.I'm not an athlet.Also not good at sports.But,i do aware of sports event such as right now all football fans are having fever;football fever - EURO 2008.
I was so proud of my state's contingents.Even though we're not a wealthy state,even though our state's sport prasarana/accomodations are not well build,at least we can prove that all the weaknesses & shortage won't stop us to become best sportsman/woman.Terengganu Boleh.
One more thing,i was so proud to see all new accomodation provided by the state government.It almost 6 months i didn't go back to my home town & everytime i was back home,i just stay at home & sometimes brought my mom to the pasar payang & mydin to buy house grocerries.A very short/limited day off made me appreciate it very well by staying at home & accompany my mom.That's all.No time to wonder around.So,i've no idea about the new stadium even though it was just a few minutes from my house.I was so proud to see the modern & 'canggih' prasarana.But i think the authority should build a new swimming pool as the exist pool was too old.The new stadium means that the old stadium in the heart of kt town will be demolished soon.It's going to be a little bit ackward after this when we pass the area & it's not there anymore.Even though i've never been in that stadium all my life,it's sure a very well-known landmark for us.

Pre-Wedding Course Day 2

Today is the 2nd day of the course. i was very sleepy as i've to wake up early on sunday morning.But what to do,i've to as we need to attend the 2nd day of yesterday's course in order to receive the certificate.Our speaker has reminded us to attend today if we want the cert.If we fail to come,we won't get anything.Thanks goodness,it only takes 2 days.What if the rumours become true about the plan to hold the course for 3 days-2 nights?I can't imagine it as it means,we have to stay & sleep at the venue as they might hold the night activities (remember 2 nights?).How come we attend the course as we have to take leave for the course (remember 3 days?)?2 days were okay as it is held during weekend.So,our working day won't be disturbed (except for those who had to work during weekend).
Back to the course.Same as yesterday,the rain pours very heavy from early morning.7.30pm we heading towards kl.Once again we get wet.We're supposed to be in the class by 8.45am.Too bad the lrt was late,but luckily we manage to arrive 8.45am sharp.We thought we are the most late persons to arrive but there are others we arrived almost 30 mins after that bcoz' of the rain.
Today's topics were more interesting especially the wedding registration procedures.My fiance asked a lot of question.As usual,he was the most talkative person in that class.The speakers were very funny too & we laugh a lot during the sessions.Even though some of the words used can be classified as 18-sx but that's what the main purpose of the course.All of the attendees were going to get married & we're supposed to know all that & we're not supposed to be shy & thought that as a taboo.'Malu btanya sesat jln'.We're supposed to be open-minded as they're very important informations & useful to married couple.
10.15am we stopped for breakfast.Luckily they provided it as my fiance & i haven't had our breakfast yet.Then we started again & stop for lunch & zohor prayer.4.30pm we stopped for tea & started again.The class finished at 5.45pm, 1 hour 15 mins early than expected time.Thanx goodness as we already felt really sleepy & tired.
The man in charge said,the cert will only ready this friday evening.So,my fiance told me to fetch it for him as may be he won't be back this weekend.Okay boss!Oh,what a relief as we've settled one of the important things b4 the wedding.This is our 2nd step towards it (the 1st step is getting engaged).After this (next month) my fiance said he's going to replace my engagement rings.I said it's ok bcoz' it's happened.Just forget it.The most important thing now is other preparetions.It's better buy the wedding ring now.Suits himself.
Erm,it's over now as we're only have to attend the course once in our life & we can use it for the rest of our live (no expiry date).The next step,wedding registration....

Pre-Wedding Course

Seri Paduka Baginda Yang di-Pertuan Agong
Al-Wathiqu Billah Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin Ibni Al-Marhum Sultan Mahmud Al-Muktafi Billah Shah
&

Seri Paduka Baginda Raja Permaisuri Agong
Tuanku Nur Zahirah

"Selamat Menyambut Hari Keputeraan SPB Yang Di-Pertuan Agong Ke XIII"

Long Live The King / Daulat Tuanku

Today is our public holiday, hari keputeraan SPB Yg Di-Pertuan Agung.My fiance also got his day off as today we have to attend an important venue. As part of our wedding preparation, we (my fiance & i) are going to the pre-wedding course (kursus pra-perkahwinan) for 2 days (today & tomorrow) at Pusat Kursus Kesedaran Insan at Jln Silang KL (at Cahaya Suria building, near Mydin).The class start at 3.00pm today until 6.00pm.& tomorrow it'll be from 8.30am to 6.00pm.So,i'll update the course activities this evening after the class.
Actually i'been planning for this course starting early this year.I've registered for the same course but i've to cancel it last minute when my fiance suddenly gave an excuse & wanted it to postpone to the coming weekend.Unfortunately,the night b4 the exact date,he lost his wallet & all the money meaned for the course registration.I was very sad that time bcoz' if he wouldn't postponed the course,we wouldn't lost the money wastely.After the 'tragedy',i didn't want to think about the course anymore as we need money for other things such as the rental deposit as i'm moving out to the previous house.
But once we've settled everything & he already worked,i decided to attend the course soonest as our wedding is just around the corner.& may be next month,we'll go back to our hometown as my parents reminded me about the wedding registration.They urged us to register early as they want to avoid any problem later on.So,as part of the registration requirement,they need pre-wedding course certificate.So,by hook or by crook,we need to attend it now.I registered it since last week.Thankfully the class was still available as today is public holiday & i worried there'll be a lot of attendees.
2pm after lunch we left for kl.The rains was very heavy & we got wet.We're supposed to register b4 3pm as the class started at 3.Luckily we arrived 15 mins b4 3 & other participants have already arrived.We were needed to fill in the registration form & paid the fees b4 the class started.3.15pm the class started & finished by 6pm,1 hour early than expected time.The class was very interesting & imformative, & the speakers were very humorous.They knew how to cheer us up as most of us were sleepy (it was evening,remember?).
We're supposed to attend the 2nd class tomorrow in order to get the certificate.Erm,i'm tired already.We're supposed to relax during this holiday,whereas we have to sit down,listen to those lectures.I'm sure if all of us are given another option,most of us won't attend the course.Even though it's not bored as i expected,but i'm sure we can imagine just sat there & listened for the whole day.But,for the sake of certificate,either we like it or not,we have bo other choice.

More Survey

taken or single ?
~ taken, ...........i'm getting married in 4 months...

are you happy with where you are?
~ yes...

when you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
~ yes...

have you ever had your heart broken?
~ yes...

would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
~ i believe in second chances...


have you ever talked about marriage with another person?
~ yes...

do you want kids?
~ of course...

how many?
~ min 1 n max 2, my biological clock is ticking fast...

would you consider adoption?
~ yes...

if somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to tell you?
~ yup...

do you enjoy playing hard to get?
~ why not...

do you believe love at first sight exists?
~ yes, i'm one of it...

do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?
~ yes...

do you believe that you can change someone?
~ we can't totally change someone...

do you have feelings for someone right now?
~ always, he's my fiance..

do you still have feelings for an ex?
~ i've no ex...

how old do you want to be when you get married?
~ i've no plan b4 but it seems i'm getting married at 33...

would you marry any of your ex`s if they ask?
~ i'll think about it (if i ever have an ex)...

WED 2008

WORLD ENVIRONMENT DAY 5 JUNE 2008

For more info, kindly refer the following website; http://www.unep.org/wed/2008/english/
U can get all info about world environment day from this site.

Failure Teaches Success

Yesterday the PAC result has been announced but i failed to check the result bcoz' of the net failure.Everytime i try to check the result,it took very long to connect to the site & in the end the line disconnected.May be the line was very bz as too many candidates wanted to check the result.I'm not too eager as i've predicted my result.
Today morning,i try to surf the website again & this time it is easy to enter the site.As i predicted earlier,i failed.My fiance seems quite dissappointed with the result as he put a high hope for me.Sorry abang bcoz' i failed you.& for me,i don't feel sad or frustrated as i didn't put any hope with it.I already knew i'll fail as i gave a very lousy performance during the test.
But this failure won't stop me of trying it for the next time.I didn't say that i'm confident that i'll pass the next exam or PAC,at least i'm positive of the next chance.

I won't give up as i was born as a successful human being.Failure teaches us the meaning of determination, perseverence, patience, insistence, persistence, courage and the spirit to try again & again.This is what i feel very time i face failure as i know it teaches me to be a strong girl.

Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder

"Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind blows out candles and fans fires", wrote FranÁois Rochefoucauld (1613-80). So before you agree on time away from your partner, decide whether your relationship is a candle or a fire. Don't risk extinguishing it by living apart for too long. Absence is more likely to make the heart grow fonder if the relationship has depth, strength and breadth;one that has both its spiritual and economic needs met, and the relationship has enjoyed not only good times, but trials that have been overcome.

Research shows that contact by phone, text or email is less effective than face-to-face communication; visual contact is vital and misunderstandings may arise without it.But on the upside, long-distance communication also enables partners to present themselves to one another in the best possible light. This idealisation of your partner isn't so easy when you see them daily, sprawled untidily on the settee.

Absence may also make the heart grow fonder for long-lost loves. Research shows that long-lost and reunited loves have a 72 per cent "stay together" rate. Only 1.5 per cent of the resulting marriages failed.

When someone you care for is away, you miss that person and think about them often, and that feeling makes you want to be with them even more.

They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. What they never tell you – what no one ever remembers to say – is that it can also make the heart grow stronger.What they never tell you, however – what no one ever wants to bring up – is how much, and how deeply, it hurts. When someone you love and care for is far away from you, it’s like a piece of your heart has been torn away by some dark, unseen hand or force. The minutes are like years, and each lonely night stretches into eternity as you’re left to lie awake and wonder. Where are they now? What are they thinking about? Are they safe? Are they well? Are they thinking of you? These are questions that won’t be truly answered until the missing half of your heart walks back into your arms – or, on some unfortunate occasions, not at all.
And you worry. Even if there seems to be no rational reason to, you find yourself afraid that something will happen, no matter how impossible or how ridiculous that seems. You tell yourself over and over that everything’s fine, but despite your sound reasoning and good logic, you never quite convince yourself. It’s hard, missing someone while they’re gone, but at least you know you’ll see them again. Unless, that is, the reason they’re missing is because they’ve been taken.

But beware, sometimes it makes the heart go yonder.Couples are unadviseble to live in separate cities or stay away from each other for an extended period of time if they can help it bcoz' distant relationships have a lack of physical contact, spiritual, mental bonding that comes from being with them every day, living in the same city.
It's true 'absence makes heart grow fonder' as i've been through it lots of time.But for me,as long as we love each other,have faith with each other,patience,tolerence,consideration,understanding, ur love will as strong & firm as china greatwall no matter what comes between us.